I am a single mom raising a son with autism. 21 years ago, I read "Autism: a permanent developmental disability requiring lifelong care for which there is no known cause or cure". In that moment my world shifted. Today more than 3.5 million readers have shared in our journey through this blog as I have detailed our 21-year journey of grief, joy, disappointments, successes, lessons, strategies, personal challenges, frustrations, fears all as they unfolded- day by day.
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
A Conversation Shocker!!!
Nicky has serious deficits in language processing and at 12, he's made a lot of progress with language, but he still doesn't have conversations outside of his interest, needs and wants without great support. But none of us ever stops asking him questions; even if they go unanswered, or need a prompt. It's just what we do, and for me it's become auto pilot. So much so, that when Nicky ran in the house from school yesterday, super happy to see me and said "Hi Mother" and I began blurting out the same questions about his day, that I ask every single day. It wasn't until I had gotten the 5th perfect response, to my 6 questions in rapid fire succession, that I realized Nicky and I just had a conversation! A CONVERSATION Nicky answered five questions about his day, without a prompt, without a reinforcer, without me body blocking him from running away. I just asked, and he just answered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMAZING!!!!! This is good, I'm going for 8!!!
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That's really awesome! :)
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