Showing posts with label Dangers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dangers. Show all posts

Thursday, January 5, 2017

Judge States "Boys will be Boys" As Justification for Rape & Assault of Special Needs Student

Not 1, or 10 but 30 Witnesses confirmed this special needs teen was assaulted. 

If you read this and you're as upset as I am, not just as a mom of a person with special needs, but as a person who believes in justice and human rights, then, please....



On October 22, 2015 a mentally disabled, African American high school student was sexually assaulted by his classmates in a nearly all white Dietrich High School in Idaho. John Howard, 18, Tanner Ward, 17, and one other unidentified member of the football team lured the victim into a school locker room, promising him hugs, stripped him, forcefully inserted a clothes hanger into his rectum, then kicked it deeper into his rectum — causing internal injuries.
When this case was initially reported, and it was announced that John Howard was being charged with felony rape, the possible penalties were as severe as life in prison. It seemed like some semblance of justice was imminent. The school superintendent interviewed 30 witnesses and confirmed that the teen was sexually assaulted. Prosecutors agreed with their investigation — which also determined that the victim was also called “Kool-Aid,” “chicken eater,” “watermelon,” and even “n----r” by students at the school.
In spite of all of this evidence, this week John Howard was given the break of his life. Instead of getting life in prison for what he did, he won’t be going to jail for 10 years or five years or a year or six months or even a day. Instead, he’s getting two years of probation and 300 hours of community service. With good behavior, the judge said his record could be expunged. He’ll also be allowed to do his community service in his new home in Texas where his family peacefully relocated.
Judges in Idaho can reject plea deals if the proposed reduced charges and sentencing does not match the crime. It is disturbing that these criminals are walking our streets. Mental health services were not addressed as they should have been mandated. It is not normal to shove a hanger up another person's rectum. This isn't a case of "boys will be boys" yet the sentence depicts that cultural attitude. Please assist us in removing Judge Randy Stoker today by signing our petition. 

Saturday, October 3, 2015

Man Ripped Teeth From Autistic Boy 4 Year Old Boy

If only all dangerous people, or strangers had a "Look".  I have no idea how I will successfully teach my son about strangers, how to recognize dangerous people much less explain they can do things like this!  Heck this guys looks like Matthew McConaughey!!! Seems a nearly impossible task. 


A Pennsylvania man was charged with assault this month after his girlfriend’s 4-year-old autistic son was found with three of his teeth ripped out.
Following a three-month investigation, NicFOX29 reported. http://www.foxnews.com/us/2015/09/28/cops-man-ripped-teeth-from-autistic-boy-4/?intcmp=obinsite
holas Kernechel, 27, was arrested on Sept. 17 on charges of aggravated assault, simple assault and endangering the welfare of a child,
“The teeth were recovered, they were intact from the root to the edge of the tooth,” Montgomery County District Attorney Risa Ferman told CBS Philly. “They were bloodied. And they have striations on them that would indicate that a tool of some sort was used to remove them from the child’s mouth.”
"[The teeth] have striations on them that would indicate that a tool of some sort was used to remove them from the child’s mouth”
- Risa Ferman, Montgomery County DA
Kernechel is being held on $100,000 bail and is scheduled for a preliminary hearing on Oct. 1. Neither the boy nor his mother is being identified.
Kernechel was allegedly asked to look after the boy for a few hours in July while the child’s mother was away at work. Kernechel left the boy “in his bed, bleeding and crying and failed to tell his mother about the injuries until she returned to the apartment in the early-morning hours,” police told FOX 29.
The mother went to police, holding the boy’s teeth in a sandwich bag, according to the Morning Call. When police responded to the apartment, they found blood splatter on the wall next to the bed, on the sheets, pillowcase and floor.
The boy told cops Kernechel “hit and take [the teeth] out,” according to the Morning Call. He allegedly told detectives about other, earlier injuries, too, including bite marks and bruises to his arms.

Thursday, October 1, 2015

Unexpected Dangers for Nick on the Road to Independence


Don't eat raw meat! 
Just uncovered another of the seemingly never ending dangers facing Nick on the road toward independence (or his definition of it).  Nick doesn’t know raw food is dangerous and you don’t eat it! 

Nick stood in our kitchen, went in the refrigerator, pulled out bacon and started eating it, RAW, and no one even noticed. His behaviorist, was right there and didn't see or say a thing. His sister walked by and screamed “Stop”, horrified at seeing the raw meat hanging out of his mouth. Thank goodness she caught it.

I’m still a bit freaked out. I'm not sure if the most upsetting to me was that I had never thought about it, or the realization of all the things he has yet to learn.

We all know bacon is one of those meats you can't eat raw! Eating uncooked bacon exposes you to bacteria as well as parasites and can cause either bacterial infections or trichinellosis, also called trichinosis, a parasitic infection.  Nick already has gastro challenges, can't imagine adding this to his problems!


Moldy bread is a good place to start
Next up teaching Nick about bad and raw food, which is not going to be easy. There are lot's of raw foods we can eat, and others we cannot and they lack any consistent reason why.  I think I'll start with teaching about bad food, because it can be easily created and introduced one food at a time and my refrigerator seems to produce an endless supply! 

Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Being Invisible is Deadly; 19 Year Old with Autism Left on School Bus Dies.

“I feel like, we are nothing," she said. “They killed my son. Technically, they killed my son.”  Eun Ha Lee


It’s taken me days to respond to this horrifying event, because every time I think about it, I hear his mother’s words “I feel like, we are nothing," “They killed my son. Technically, they killed my son.”

The reminder of how vulnerable our kids are, and how easy it is to neglect them and how fatal the consequences can be, was just too much for me to take in.  When Lee’s mom through her tears said "We live in a tomb now." I felt her grief and all I could think was by the grace of God go I.  

Reading he was probably just following directions drilled into him over the years "Wait until someone comes to get you" hit too close to home because my son has been "trained" in the same way. Training that is good and often all we can offer, yet in this case may have been a factor in this young man losing his life, left me feeling vunerable in a way I never had before.

Again, families I say” be afraid, be very afraid”. Not because we want to live paranoid, but because the fact is our children face all the dangers any child faces in the world nd more. Dangers from all angles. Last week Nick started eating raw bacon! Raw Bacon and his aid didn't notice. Until that moment I didn't realize the degree of Nick's lack of food safety, which could have dire consequences. 

Our schools, systems of care and communities alike are all working to include the growing autism population and the truth is the process is not perfect, it is flawed and full of gaps, and who knows how long it will take to build infrastructures that support this population, if ever. 

As parents and caregivers we know the dangers don’t stop as our children mature, but persist keeping them are risk throughout their lives. So it’s on us to make this a safer world for our kids. I’m thinking the more I do know the better it will be when I am not here to watch over him. Don’t get me wrong, I know there is no way we can ever be sure our children are safe, typical or special needs. We can’t guarantee anyone’s safety, that’s in the hands of a higher power and it is a concern all families and caregivers share. The only thing we can do is take every precaution to keep them safe. We can learn from the tragic death of Hun-Joon Lee and double check all our personal protocols and the protocols of the people who serve and support our children. This way if any of us are met with a tragedy of this magnitude, and the fact is some of us will be, we will know we did the best we could and we will not add the weight of regret to our already burdened shoulders.


My prayers go out to this family. 
Donna 

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Saturday, July 4, 2015

Diagnosis: Smell Test Identifies Autism in 81% of Cases

Looking at smell as a possible diagnosic tool is great. In the "NOW" understanding and pushing information out into the world about the seemingly subtle differences, between those living with ASD and the typical population is the best tool we have to creating safe and productive environments. 
As a parent of a kiddo with autism I've watched my son's entire sensory system function in it's on unique way for years. He has under reactions to pain - so he has to be really hurt before he notices, he can't stand certain textures in his mouth, and having anything rubbed on his skin, or the sound of a siren is so painful it's torture for him. I typically explain Nick's sensory system as being like a music mixing board. Imagine most people's sensory responses both receptive and expressive (going in and heading out) are all mixed to be balanced at level 5 with a range of 0 to 10. Our kids however are scrambled; with their sight, sound, touch, taste, smell mixed within and even out side of the range. 
That said, here's what I get in this story. I get an opportunity for people to become aware of the dangers facing our kids. People ask me why Nick I doesn't use the gas range to cook, but I let him use the toaster, grills, the over and microwave. They are surprised when I say it's not about the heat, it's because he can't smell the gas - and would blow the house up. So thanks to this story maybe a few more people will get the connection...If a person with autism can't smell smoke, rotten food, or gas and identify those smells as dangerous they are vulnerable to dangers. ........Donna
Study finds children with autism don't react to good and bad smells
By Carina Storrs, Special to CNN
·         A study says children with autism spectrum disorder may be less sensitive to odors
·         Researchers developed a device to measure children's responses to good and bad smells
·         The device might one day help diagnose autism
(CNN)Children with autism spectrum disorder often have either an exaggerated or a numbed response to sight, sound and touch. This behavior is so common that it's one of the diagnostic criteria for the disorder.
Now, a new study suggests that children with autism might also experience smells differently from children who have typical development.
To explore how children with autism respond to odors, researchers built a device called an olfactometer, which delivered different scents through a small tube that fit into nostrils. A second tube measured how much air the children were breathing in during each scent -- in other words, how much of a sniff they were taking.
The researchers exposed 36 children -- 18 who had autism and 18 who did not -- to alternating bouquets of pleasant smells, such as roses or shampoo, or unpleasant smells, such as sour milk or rotten fish.
They found that children who did not have autism took a longer sniff for roses and a shorter one for rotten fish, and the difference in breathing happened quickly, within one-third of second of being exposed to the scent.
In contrast, children with autism did not change their breathing in response to the different aromas.
"What we measure, the sniff response, is quite intuitive (and) adults and children with typical development react similarly," said Liron Rozenkrantz, a doctoral student in neurobiology at the Weizmann Institute of Science in Israel. The difference found in children with autism was striking, said Rozenkrantz, who was lead author of the study published Thursday in Current Biology.
It is unclear from the study if children with autism did not have a sniff response because they didn't perceive odors in the same way other children did, or because they just couldn't control their sniffing behavior.
Still, the idea that differences in smelling could be a symptom of autism might not be news to parents of children with autism. There have been accounts from parents about children who want to sniff people or objects, or who choose their friends based on their odor, even when it's imperceptible to others, Rozenkrantz said.
It has been difficult to study smelling behavior in children with autism because tests often ask them to describe odors, even though difficulty in communicating is a hallmark of autism, Rozenkrantz said.
The olfactometer-based test takes about 10 minutes and does not require the children to answer any questions or complete a task. In the study, they wore the device while watching cartoons.
The researchers in the current study found that their olfactometer could accurately identify the autism status of 12 of the 18 children who had autism, and 17 of the 18 control children who did not have autism.
The ability of the device to correctly categorize autism in 81% of cases raises the possibility that it could one day be used as a way to diagnose the disorder. The fact that it does not require a verbal test means that the olfactometer could be used in babies as young as a few months old, Rozenkrantz said.
However the average age of children in the current study was 7. For the device to become a method for early diagnosis, it would first have to be tested in young babies, and babies identified as being at risk of autism would have to be followed into childhood to see if they actually developed the disorder, Rozenkrantz said.
Research has shown that early behavioral interventions for young children at risk of autism could improve their development. Most children are not diagnosed until age 4 or older and have missed a key window to get help.
"It's way too early to say whether this could be helpful in diagnosing autism," said Dr. Paul Wang, senior vice president and head of medical research for Autism Speaks, an autism research and advocacy organization. Wang was not involved in the study.
In order to be used as a diagnostic tool, the device would have be tested in more children and also show that it can identify autism in more than two-thirds of children with the disorder, he said.
However the current study does give some idea of olfactory symptoms that could be occurring with autism, Wang said.
"I think this really fits well with increasing research on general sensory symptoms in autism," he said.
The researchers saw that children who had a dampened sniff response were more likely to also have deficits in communicating and socializing, but were less likely to have repetitive behaviors, which are the other hallmark of autism.
Differences in sensory reactions have previously been thought of as part of the repetitive behaviors of the disorder, but "this is an interesting study that suggests that the senses are more tied to socio-communicative behavior," Wang said.
These findings could also provide some clues as to why many children with autism have trouble eating.

"It could be muscular problems, with swallowing and chewing, but smell is a big part of taste and children with autism may not perceive smell in the same way as other children," Wang said.

Friday, October 26, 2007

Dangers and The Single Mom

My next door neighbor was followed into her house by a man armed with a knife who planned to rob them. The good news is that my neighbor surprised him because she had a friend in the house, who surprised him back and he ran. Turns out this man is part of a crew of thieves who where hitting our area. I am freaked out, not just because the thought of such an incident is horrifying, but I am a single mom with a daughter and a son who has no idea what a robber is.

I worry that someone would come in the house and not understand a boy running and jumping and Nicky would not understand if I yelled "stop" and he would scare a thief and get himself shot.

I never really thought about that kind of safety, I've focused on cars, pools, crossing streets and him not leaving home and going to the neighbors naked. Those are scary but the thought of him in a violent situation, is really scary because he would not understand.

I don't have any solutions to this one...I know I'm not the gal to own a gun because I would be nervous every day that Nicky might get it.  My solution right now lays in the lap of our big dog and her instinct to protect us. She looks like a killer and I'm counting on her and a good alarm system to keep the bad guys out.