I was sad for Nicky, but I was also proud of him. So often I don't see signs of empathy...this was a sign. He connected with the toy's who didn't fit, and he let his sadness out.
I am a single mom raising a son with autism. 21 years ago, I read "Autism: a permanent developmental disability requiring lifelong care for which there is no known cause or cure". In that moment my world shifted. Today more than 3.5 million readers have shared in our journey through this blog as I have detailed our 21-year journey of grief, joy, disappointments, successes, lessons, strategies, personal challenges, frustrations, fears all as they unfolded- day by day.
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Sudden Burst of Tears - Nicky's emotional burst of Empathy
Nicky will expectingly burst into hysterical crying. It happens about every 2 months. Not a whimper, but the kind of crying that sounds as if he had just broken a bone or something! I try to understand what set him off and often I walk away feeling helpless, because I can not figure out what upset him. Last night, it happened again, and I ran in the room to find him with tears running down his cheeks looking heart broken. He was on the computer and watching "Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer" and when I said why are you crying he said "Rudolph". I asked "What happened?, What made Nicky sad?" and I pleaded for him to tell Mommy. He cried and cried and finally said "The Misfits, I'm sad for the Misfits".
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